Friday 13 April 2012

A dotted line In a Relationship.........................

There are many people we come across in daily lives right from School to college and work place and even relatives.But we hardly keep in touch with so many of them. Few of friends will be in touch for a brief period of time and the contact vanishes later..

What may be the reason???



In every relationship, Sharing is important.Starting from Trivial things to important ones, its important to share the moments with a companion. Thts why Man is known as a social animal. Over a period of time, we tend to get cob webbed in our daily life and maintain relation with only those who we meet on day to day basis except few close friends...



Social Networking sites such as Facebook, Google plus do project to get back in touch with old friends who might be out of sight for a while now..but will those vitual connections bring back the spark in the relationship that once existed..( But if the relationship was strong, it wouldnt have faded). Momentatily happiness is definitely felt when the sight of long lost friend is seen on those sites.

But will this nurture a valuable relationship?..



This is what I call a dotted line because the connection exist but still there is no relation.Similar to dotted line hierarchy in a corporate sector. When a person reports to his higher manager in a dotted line, the higher manager do not decide his ratings or performance but still the person is expected to please the boss.



As I said, Relationship ceases to exist when there is no sharing..


2 comments:

suku said...

good thought:)

jayasudhaa said...

Thank u suku ..